Physical Therapy has replaced exercise. Meditation has replaced thinking. Staying in daily contact with friends has replaced making art. Doctor’s visits have replaced movie going.
The
problem with the once seduction of a book as excitement of living and learning
with thoughtless embrace of words, ideas, manifestos is besieged by the
unanswerable and absurd, “why?” Yet, when I hear the word clanging around in
my brain, I want to rip it out and stomp it into this new ground upon which I
walk now, aging. It’s time to forget the whole matter of age otherwise it will
pull life straight from under oneself. “Is this important?” “Is this a
priority?” “Does this contribute to legacy?” Pondering against the backdrop of
dying has become the daily tedium.
Most
of life’s banality once a din of necessity is now an endless repetition without
end or reason. Washing the dishes, cleaning the oven, taking out the trash, the
cat box, sweeping and moping the kitchen, vacuuming, scrubbing the tub, toilet,
sink, floor, laundry, making the bed, paying bills, opening the mail, returning
phone calls, oil changes, car washes, reading the paper, buying groceries,
making meals . . . the incessant chopping, chewing and the brushing of teeth
and the flossing or loose them. Then there is sleeping followed by awakening,
beginning the repeating of it over and over again. The volume has been turned
up on these everyday chores that besiege all humans on the planet and I didn’t
mention childcare or sex or dressing or pressing and the terror of hairstyle
and let us not forget manicures and pedicures.
Thinking.
The problem of the omnipresent mundane taking over like some crazed kudzu is a
side effect of spending too much time at home alone. Aha! This aloneness is the
problem, not aging. Well, I’m glad I got that figured out and so now to change
it, otherwise I am going to go crazy or give up.
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